What my clients have said about

‘Your Happiness and Freedom’

Mentoring Program

“Many have seen the change in me, so do believe”

L Franklin, Parent, Partner, Social Worker, Aug 2004

“Dearest Lucy, I still reflect on your teachings regularly. When I tell people my meetings with you changed my life around, I often wish I had a little picture of you or a figurine or...mathematical equation (!) that I could give to them to show them and encourage them to make contact with you. Many of course, have seen the change in me, so do believe.”

“A technique…quite powerful and limitless and personal”

Simon D, IT, Aug 2003

“Your program and your feedback through the weekly reflection sheet that you prepared were so helpful. There was so much in the program that I found so useful even though some of it shocked me at first and I resisted it. But that was only showing me how my ego and my conditioning are! Here are just some of the things we got from the program.

Learning not to live in the future.

Biggest learning – learning not to live in the past. I have a tendency to remember painful experiences rather than joyful ones. I am now wanting to remember good things

Trying to focus on the day and its opportunities

Much more conscious of myself in relationships with others, aware of my thoughts/feelings which I can analyse using meditation

Skill of being able to focus on my breath anywhere, anytime to settle fear, anxiety so that they don’t exacerbate

Being able to recognize ego in myself helps me recognize ego in others and I am more understanding, empathetic

A technique that employs focussing the mind. It’s not yoga, not relaxation. Quite powerful and limitless and personal. Surprises me how useful it is to deal with life’s problems using tools you already have, your mind which lies dormant.”

“Whereas before I used to believe that we couldn’t change even though I did experience change!...”

Alison M, Social Worker, Parent, Aug 2003

“That we are changing. A big learning for me was IMPERMANENCE. We’re already changing and in profound ways. In psychology, they reinforce peoples’ personality types and there seems to be a message that we are that and not capable of changing. But we are and we do! Whereas before I used to believe that we couldn’t change even though I did experience change!

More aware of the power of my consciousness – MIND over MATTER means something to me now!

I am beginning to get a sense that I am more than my physical self. But this is still embryonic.

There’s so much more Lucy and I’m afraid I may have forgotten to list them! I really appreciated your wisdom and felt so safe and affirmed in your non-judgmental presence. Thank you!”

“I am more excited now and I am able to accept things better”

Keith K, Vet, Businessman, Parent, Partner, Nov 2008

“One of the important things I have learnt is to examine my motivation for doing anything: I ask myself “Am I responding from a place of love,caring and support…am I deriving joy from what I am doing?”

Am I living in the “now” …being there ..enjoying the experience with an unconditioned mind .. seeing and feeling things from a neutral or blank perspective, not judging but just observing. I am motivated to continue my spiritual growth as I will be a happier person who can then support others more easily.

I began this program feeling concerned that I was unable to make decisions, take action, steer my life in a particular direction as I used to be able to do when I was younger. But my concerns are not really concerns any more but more just wondering where this spiritual growth will lead me. I am more excited now and I am able to accept things better.

“Problems” will only be such if I see them as such. I have control over how I think and respond to what happens around me. It’s only an event until I judge it.

My expectations are to use my spiritual growth to have a much more rewarding life whereby I am accepting of the universe and its happenings and that I don’t want to or have control over them…not to argue with the world but to just let it happen and to use my loving motivation to work out what I desire and intend and allow these things to happen and accept the outcome.”

“Another wonderful insight I have gained, which I use regularly, is to be motivated by love. That is very powerful, very powerful for me. It can instantly change my whole outlook on a situation”.

Jody C, Management Banking, Parent, Partner, June 2008

“There have been sooooo many things I have learned, and I believe there are still soooo many that I am yet to discover.

One of the strongest pieces of wisdom I have gained is the ‘awareness’ I have learned. Being aware of my thoughts, how my thoughts have turned to actions.

Another is that each event, each situation as it arises, is brand new, and to deal with it from the present moment and not from what has happened previously.

I love the idea of the present moment, of being. This really helps me when I become aware that I am thinking in the past, or projecting into the future. I very gently bring myself back to the present moment, and in the present moment all is perfect.

I have gained a lot from becoming an observer, observing my thoughts, my actions, my responses. More specifically the ‘conditioned’ way that I was thinking/acting/responding. When I allow myself to act/respond with the limitlessness that is available to me, I feel like I can do anything at all.

Another wonderful insight I have gained, which I use regularly, is to be motivated by love. That is very powerful, very powerful for me. It can instantly change my whole outlook on a situation.

A daily skill I have learned to do is my meditation, to become aware, to be present, this is also very powerful for me. Towards the end of my meditation, I love to do my “Desire/Intend/Allow” and this just opens up a universe of possibilities. It feels to me that I am creating what I am intending.

This has all been very powerful, positive and a journey that I am extremely grateful that I was drawn to take. Thank you dear Lucy!”