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The Baby gets Married

One of the great things about blogging, as opposed to most kinds of profitable writing, is that you, the blogger, get to pick your own topics. Which is why writing this post today is proving to be a little awkward for me. You see, I am writing this post as part of a competition that I am participating in and the topic has been selected for me. It’s making me feel a little nervous.

Don’t get me wrong. I have done a lot of writing for others where the subject matter and topics have been assigned to me and I have not only delivered successfully, I have almost always enjoyed the assignments. In fact, one of the advertising claims I make, and it’s an honest one I might add, is that I am capable of writing on just about any topic and writing from a range of perspectives including ones that I may not believe in myself! So, writing on topics that I have not personally chosen is hardly alien to me.

However this, this is a little different. Perhaps a lot different. You see, my blog is my baby! This is my kingdom (queendom, really)! This is my stomping ground where I get to say and do what I want to say and do and nobody can tell me otherwise! This is where I am the boss! If readers don’t like the topics I handle here and how I handle them, tough luck! This is the one place in the whole wide world where I feel I can say and do as I please, if I choose to! This is sacred ground, people, where I design my own rituals and observe my own traditions and make my own obeisance and CHOOSE MY OWN TOPICS!

And here I am, about to desecrate my own temple by writing on an assigned topic! No wonder I am feeling nervous. Nervous, did I say??? Now if that isn’t an understatement! Feels more like separation trauma or manic depression! God forbid, I have succumbed to the cunning and conniving of….wait for it…Entrecard and Sezwho!!!!!

Oh woe betide, I am about to commit the one act that I shall never forgive myself for, an act that I am willingly, nay obsequiously, selling my blogger soul for! And far from dreading it, I am actually relishing this unholy desecration of my blog temple! If you find me alive at the end of this post, it would have been the devil himself that has kept me alive!

Right then. Now that I have got that off my chest, let me get right on with this post, shall I? Here it is. (Incidentally, the assignment post is about the Entrecard-SezWho partnership but I really must give you a bit of background first).

According to the scant research (mostly hearsay from other bloggers) that I’ve done, first there was Graham. He gave birth to a baby and named it Entrecard. It was a pretty smart baby because within eight months, it had acquired a following of some 14,000 bloggers (not all of whom are soul-sellers like me, I might add). And, it did it in the slickest way you could possibly imagine. Want to know how?

Well, first, it made just about everything free. Bloggers could join its community (did I forget to mention that Entrecard is, among other things a living, breathing, blogging and ‘dropping’ community?) for free. It also provided you with a free business card and gave you the option of replacing it with your own unique design. I mean, how good is that?

Next, it has this genius of a system whereby you get rewarded with credits for visiting other blogs and ‘dropping’ your business card while you’re there. Kinda classy, wouldn’t you say? Now, as if that weren’t enough, this Entrecard baby also allows you to use your credits to buy advertising on other blogs! Cool or what? Did I mention that all this is free? Yes, F – R- E – E.

But wait, there is more. Heaps more. Entrecard, which is no longer Graham’s baby but his now, adolescent child, never rests! It is forever plotting devilish schemes to encourage its community of bloggers to improve the quality of their posts, raise the profile of bloggers throughout the Blogosphere and support each other by commenting on each other’s posts. So, in the last two months alone, Entrecard has organized two ‘Comment Rushes’ where bloggers have been asked to comment on the post of a selected blogger in order to raise the profile of that blogger within the community and to give her/him a bit of a leg up.

And there is more. In the last month or so, Entrecard organized a huge Diggathon, the aim of which was, once again, to help members get more exposure and more traffic. As you all know, blogs without traffic are like undiscovered diamonds – hidden and unprofitable. So, Entrecard members were asked to join Digg and make each other their ‘friends’ and when deserved, digg their friends’ posts. Many bloggers discovered Digg as a result of this particular community drive.

Did I say there was more? Indeed. And this is where the plot really thickens to the point of congealing. I mean, we now have a partnership – the Entrecard-Sezwho partnership. Now I have only just met SezWho and I can tell you that my first impressions of it delight and thrill me!

Here is a blogger-serving system that encourages you to comment on your fellow-bloggers’ posts by rewarding you with credits (Remember the credits I mentioned before? Yeah, those types)! You see, comments are what keep a blog alive and vibrant. Without comments, even a brilliant blog (such as mine ;-)) gets petrified, cast in obscurity and left to erode. A blog without comments is like an unattended feast – great and plentiful in its offerings but no one to partake of it.

Now, if you’re already impressed out of sight, you ain’t seen nothing yet! There’s more! You are rewarded according to the quality of your comments and that quality is evaluated by your peers! Is this blogging utopia or what???? The upshot of all this is that if you want to get lots of credits, you will need to write well and comment well.

But there’s still more! Yes, sing it out from the blog tops. There is more, more, more! But, given the already lengthy length of this post, I shall give you the ‘more’ in dot point:

• By writing well, you attract interest in your blog and this generates comments
• By commenting well, you attract interest in yourself and your blog and so you get more traffic
• By commenting well, you attract interest in another person’s blog and so they get more traffic
• By getting more traffic, you both reap rewards, whether of a monetary, literary and/or personal nature
• By getting good writing, good, quality comments and more traffic, all Entrecard-SezWho members thrive, the community thrives and matures and Graham’s baby, now married, can produce even more genius offspring.

Oh, don’t you just love a story with a prosperously good ending?

To blogging and beyond!

Love always, Lucy

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11 comments to The Baby gets Married

  • Elaine

    Wow, Lucy I feel I have been taken into a whole new world! An area that I have never been nor understood before! Thank you for sharing…
    Before you know it, Graham will be a Grandpa!
    Love & Hugs to you!
    Elaine

  • Well, Lucy – I’ve taken my shoes off to enter here.
    As always, it is spacious and welcoming – spacious – because of its universal approach – welcoming – because it’s Lucy Lopez.
    Desecration? I don’t think so.
    If it serves to spread the word – that word being happiness – then it’s all for a worthwhile cause.
    What a thorough and entertaining “competition entry” it is as well.

    But just in case my assessment is off track, I’ll say a few prayers for your blog-atman.

    Hey – who’s pinched my shoes . . ?

  • @Lainey
    Too right Elaine! Lots of twins too, I’d imagine :-)

    @Ellumbra
    Modern Koan – If your feet are not in your shoes, whose shoes are they?

    Please pray. Period. :-)

  • I am not deceived by the apparant simplicity of that Koan. A strange synchronistic prescience of this conundrum occurred in the shoe shop only the other day. My spirit was immediately startled & challenged when the assistant enquired “Are those your feet?”
    I go to the Himalayas at the end of the week.
    I must know – and know deeply. A lot of sole searching is called for :)

  • Well, this is the first blog comment I have made on a blog that uses SezWho so I am proceeding with some trepidation–fear actually. Before SezWho, I could present my comments and if the poster chose to publish them–they were published and that was the end of it. Now this humble comment not only may not be published (which, of course, is fine with me), but if it is published, it will undergo the evaluation of other commenters and be rated (egads!). I don’t know if my sensitive psyche can stand all of this public scrutiny. You really have to be tough to be a blogger.

  • @Ellumbra
    OK, I know we covered the universe, temples, shoes and feet…but when did we get on to fishing??? :-)

    May your search, commencing at the *foot* of the mountain, help you find your *feet* again in in the grand *store* of life where fresh *soul* is always on offer!

    Ohhhh, sometimes I am in awe of my own cleverness!!!

    @Patricia
    What others think of us and/or our comments is their business. Our business is to cultivate our own standards and live by them. One of my favorite quotes is by Eleanor Roosevelt:

    No one can make you feel inferior without your permission.

    Thanks for your comment!

  • Great post. When you look at it like that, all our blogs are our babies. We must nurture them until they grew up and even then we must look after them to make sure they are doing the right thing :)

  • ha, ha – you caught me there – reaching for the dictionary.
    I shall stoop no more to the lowly depths of a pun.

  • @Poet Blogger
    Yes, I agree we have to nurture our blogs (which is really a form of self-nurturing) and that it is our great privilege to do the best we can with it.

    @Ellumbra
    :-)

  • This was the best and most entertaining introduction to the marriage I’ve read. If this is part of a competition, do I get to vote? If so, where?

  • Hi Louise! Thanks for your comment :-).

    Yes, it is part of a competition but, if I am not mistaken, it is really about chalking up points by doing a number of things, one of which is writing a post about the partnership.

    Upon reading your comment, I went to the EC blog to look for the post about the competition so I could give you the link but I couldn’t find it. Anyway, perhaps you could link to this post from your blog if you feel so inclined.

    I also tried to find your blog but couldn’t. What is it?

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