Then again there is no ‘all’ ‘to love’ when All is Love – our essential nature!

And yes, how do we remind ourselves? How do we stay in awareness of this fundamental truth?

For me it is through formal and informal meditation (where I experience this truth)and through reading, writing and reminding others.

I feel sometimes that forgetfullness is responsible for any attitude of blame – forgetting that I am also – always in a relationship to the object of blame.
Take for example a traffic collision – no matter how much I like to think the other is solely to blame – if I weren’t there, at that particular time, in that precise space – there could have been no collision – how could I possibly exclude myself from the equation, other than not seeing things as they really are?

On another tack – we were talking at home about “love thy neighbour as thyself.”
I realised an unfamiliar reversal of that golden rule – most people are probably kinder to others than they sometimes are on themselves – so the instruction also encourages us to love ourselves – to be happy – to be realistic about things we have no power over.
Loving oneself may sound arrogant at first, but first we must accept firmly that the concept is literally impossible – there being no seperate “subject/object” within ourselves – and having accepted that all of life is one, we cannot exlude “ourselves” from that equation – so it merely implies allowing, permitting ourselves to enjoy our life, love and liberty – whatever it is we choose to do with it.
And that can help us to remember.